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Networking Is Tough: Not Working Is Tougher
Effective networking requires three simple tools: a business card,
a pen, and the right attitude.
J. Larry Tyler, FACHE, FAAHC
Networking.It's kind of like motherhood and apple pie. Everyone agrees
it's a good thing. The problem is no one agrees what it
is and what separates effective networkers from the rest.
To me, networking can be described in four different ways:
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Keeping in touch: contacting people periodically by
phone or mail to let them know your status.
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Soliciting information: asking for specific information
about job openings or opportunities.
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Exchanging information: sharing information, often about
competitors or marketing leads.
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Asking for action: requesting someone to pass on a resume or
make a call on your behalf.
In a networking contact, any combination of the above can
be present. In each case, the contact is preceded by an
introduction that comes about by circumstance or planning.
When this occurs, it is important to be prepared.
Preparing To Network
One of the more interesting facets of networking is the
randomness with which opportunities materialize. Because
networking can be haphazard, many people are not prepared.
This is unfortunate since a chance encounter is often
the prelude to a great opportunity and because preparation
is so easy. All it requires is business cards, a pen,
and the right attitude.
At the job search seminars I conduct for the ACHE, I often
ask for a show of hands of all those who brought their
business cards. Usually about two-thirds of the participants
raise their hands. At the coffee breaks, participants
with cards often exchange them. Unfortunately, those who
forgot their cards are left out of the information exchange.
Networking in a business setting is great, but networking can also
take place in casual settings-at the grocery store, the
service station, or even on vacation. Since you never
know when a chance encounter will result in a lead or
an opportunity, you should be prepared.
Recently, I attended a conference in Bermuda. On a free afternoon,
my wife and I decided to visit Hamilton. While we were
waiting at the bus stop, a gentleman drove up in his car
and offered us a ride. Although hesitant at first, we
accepted and, on the way to Hamilton, struck up a friendly
conversation. We soon learned that the driver was a local
character named Peter Bromley, a bottle collector whose
recently donated collection was on display in the dockyards.
As it turns out, Bromley had a daughter married to a physician
who practices at Crawford Long Hospital of Emory University
in Atlanta, my hometown. At the end of the trip as we
said good-bye, Bromley and I exchanged business cards.
I pulled out my pen, jotted some notes down, and wrote
him when I got back home.
What the results of this chance encounter will be, I don't
know. Maybe one day I will be asked to conduct a search
for the Minister of Health in Bermuda. Maybe I just made
an acquaintance who will stop by to say hello when he
is in the states. Or maybe nothing will come of it but
a free ride into Hamilton with a kind man. Regardless
of the outcome, Peter Bromley is now a part of my network.
Networking With People We Know
Networking takes several forms. Almost all of us can network
with people we know. It is easy to call up an old friend
and ask for information and job leads. Most of the time
we will be received enthusiastically and information will
be exchanged rapidly. With people we know, we are comfortable
and relaxed. The trouble is that we soon run out of people
we know.
Networking With Strangers
Networking with strangers is another matter. Many people
fear calling or meeting with people they do not know.
Often, this is an irrational fear. Candidates often tell
me that they are surprised at how much help strangers
have been to them in their job search and how disappointed
they were that some of their friends did nothing out of
the ordinary to help them.
Being referred to a stranger by someone we know is a preferred
course since we get an introduction. It makes the discussions
easier and we feel better about the process. Eventually,
however, we will have to introduce ourselves to strangers
without any prior contact. Don't fear these contacts:
most people will be of help if they can be and will be
polite if they cannot. Accept the fact that eventually
you are going to have to network with strangers. Use the
third tool-attitude-to help you along. Remember, networking
is tough, but not working is tougher.
Maintaining Your Network
Maintaining your network contacts is an important task
and even natural networkers need a planned network maintenance
program. In networking, follow-up is extremely important.
When someone asks you to call them on a certain day, call
them. If you are asked to call at 7:30 a.m., do it. Many
hires are made because candidates kept in touch when and
how they were asked to.
Networking requires organization and the computer is a wonderful
tool for organizing. Programs are available that act as
a database, personal manager, and word processor. In addition
to its organizing capabilities, computers have brought
us a new age of networking through the Internet. Many
of my friends are now letting me know how they are doing
through our Internet address at Tyler & Company. There
are several great things about E-mail. It's quick and
provides a sense of urgency. It also allows you to mail
the same letter to hundreds of people at the same time.
Online forums and chat lines create another kind of network
ready for exploring.
Another way to maintain your network is to send holiday cards
to your contacts. Often, I see letters accompanying the
cards detailing job moves and family events over the past
year. I like this because it allows me to relate to the
networker. A step beyond this is the personal phone call
once or twice a year to catch up on life events. Because
of the time involved, this type of maintenance should
only be used for the very best and most influential network
members.
I believe that E-mail is the networking tool of the next
century and I urge you to start asking your contacts for
their E-mail addresses for your database. However, nothing
can replace the value of a face-to-face meeting. And for
this, you will always need those three essential tools:
the card, the pen, and the right attitude. It's this last
tool that in the long haul separates the effective networkers
from the rest.
J. Larry Tyler, FACHE, FAAHC, is president of Tyler & Company,
an executive search firm in Atlanta. He is the author
of Tyler's Guide:
The Healthcare Executive's Job Search, Third Edition,
published by Health Administration Press. To order, contact
the HAP/ACHE Order Fulfillment Center at (301) 362-6905.
This article is reprinted from Healthcare Executive.
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